Sex toys are never behind the time, they are evolving rapidly and often shock us with innovative products. One of them is definitely a strapless dildo, designed for vulva owners, that seems confusing and strange at first glance.
But if you love challenges and experiments, a strapless dildo can become your new obsession. Forget the awkward strap-on harness and start training your Kegel muscles, so you can get the most from this double trouble toy.
What is a strapless strap-on?
A strapless strap-on is an innovative alternative to strap-on dildos with a harness. Strap-on dildos are amazing sex toys, but sometimes the harness can be annoying. You have to put it on, adjust it and hold it in place, so it is not a grab-and-go toy.
Even the biggest fans of strap-on dildos may find the straps and buckles irritating because sometimes we want to start using them without the preparation and adjustments.
Strapless strap-ons without the harness were created for immediate play and spontaneous fun. They have a dildo for penetration on one side and a smaller bulb on another side that replaces the straps and should be inserted in the vagina.
A vagina owner holds a bulb inside with the pelvic floor muscles (also known as Kegel muscles), which requires stronger and tighter muscles. If you want to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, you can start doing Kegel exercises - a simple but effective way to tight these areas.
Many strapless dildo models come with textured stimulators, bullets, or even rabbit ears that tease the wearer’s clitoris during intercourse.
Strapless dildos can be worn by vulva owners who can have fun with other people with vaginas and enjoy penetration and mutual stimulation. But that doesn’t mean couples or lovers can’t try them either - it is the perfect toy for vulva owners who love pegging people with penises.
Benefits of using a strapless dildo
Even if a strapless dildo looks scary and your Kegel muscles aren’t the strongest, you should still test this wonderful toy. Owning a strapless dildo has many advantages:
- No complicated straps and buckles to put on, so you can enjoy it quickly and without preparation;
- The double stimulation of both partners with using only one sex toy;
- Giver and receiver can climax together, as the bulb inside the wearer stimulates their G-spot while they penetrate their partner(s);
- More skin-on-skin contact without the harness in the way that allows partners to be closer and enjoy more natural stimulation;
- Sex with strapless dildos feels more intense and real because of skin contact and because both partners can enjoy one toy at the same time;
- Different strapless dildo models will satisfy every lover, from curved and bulging shapes that stimulate G-spot and prostate to vibrating types that will make the play more exciting or even models with rabbit add-ons to tease the clitoris.
Putting in a strapless dildo.
Placing a strapless dildo and preparing for the action can seem confusing to beginners. Where to put the dildo and how to hold it, you will wonder as you stare at your precious toy.
The bulb part goes into the vagina, and the weaver has to hold it there with the pelvic floor muscles. And that is the trick - the giver needs to have strong PF muscles to hold the toy in place and use it inside their partner.
Natural wetness and lubricant - we recommend using every sex toy with lube - will force a strapless dildo out. So, if your Kegel muscles are weak, you won’t be able to hold the toy inside you.
If you would like to experiment with a strapless dildo and have soft muscles, start doing Kegel exercises that will help you keep the dildo inside while playing.
When you can keep the bulb inside you, the main part (dildo) is ready, and you can start thrusting or pegging your partner.
Don't get frustrated if your toy keeps falling out, and do Kegel training every day. In the meantime, you can use a strapless dildo belt until your muscles are tense and ready!
How is a strapless dildo held in?
As already mentioned, the vagina owner holds the bulb with the help of Kegel muscles, which must be strong to keep the toy inside. It can take some time and practice to get used to strapless dildos.
It is difficult for beginners to keep the bulb inside, especially with a combination of a slippery lubricant. Don’t get discouraged - practice and Kegel training will help you strengthen those muscles.
It is no secret that pelvic floor muscle exercises are great and recommended for you. Not only will you be able to keep the dildo in you, but also because of the many other health benefits!
Besides the exercise, you need to choose the right dildo as they are available in many models. Beginners should choose the dildos with bigger bulbs because they are easier to hold inside - smaller bulbs fall out faster.
If that doesn’t work for you, try different strapless dildos and positions while doing Kegel exercises daily.
Strengthening pelvic floor muscles.
Kegel exercises can help penis and vagina owners strengthen their pelvic floor muscles. There are many reasons (pregnancy, aging, weight gain, etc.) that weaken the Kegel muscles throughout our lives.
Weak pelvic floor muscles can cause discomfort and serious illnesses such as urinary incontinence (unintentional leakage of urine that can't be controlled).
Kegel exercises will strengthen these muscles and have many other benefits for your sexual health. It can help you relax your vaginal muscles (essential for those who suffer from painful intercourse) and increase your sexual arousal and vaginal lubricant.
These simple “workouts” can even help you orgasm and bless you with stronger and multiple orgasms.
In addition, you will be able to easily and effortlessly hold the strapless dildo inside you. So, stop waiting and start doing your Kegels while reading this article.
You can buy Ben Wa Balls ("Kegel balls"), weighted balls that are available in different sizes and weights, and start using them every day.
You can also do Kegel exercises without any equipment. First, locate and identify your pelvic floor muscles - one way to discover them is to stop the flow of urine while you are on the toilet and urinate.
You will be able to feel them, but don't use this way to strengthen those areas. It is not recommended as an exercise, and you should only do it to identify these muscles.
Once you know where your “Kegels” are, strengthen them, hold for 5 seconds, and release them for 5 seconds. Repeat 10 to 20 times in a row three times a day. It is better to spread the exercise throughout the day than to do it all at once.
You can do your Kegels basically anywhere, anytime, and without any equipment. After some practice, you will be able to squeeze, hold and use a strapless dildo like a pro!
Tips for using a strapless dildo.
To make the most of your new strapless toy, try the following tips:
- Be consistent with your workout and do Kegel exercises every day or use Ben Wa balls. After one month, you will notice a difference.
- Choose the right strapless dildo for you and your partner. If you are a beginner, we recommend a simple model with a large bulb that is easier to use.
- Use a long-lasting and safe body lubricant that will improve play and prevent any discomfort or injuries.
- Experiment with stimulating gels while using a strapless dildo and provide extra stimulation. Vagina owners can try clit-stimulating or/and G-spot-stimulating gel, and penis owners can have fun with prostate stimulating gel to maximize sensations.
- Bring other sex toys to the party and combine them with a strapless dildo for more joy and shaking orgasms.
- Keep practicing with your toy, and have fun! It takes some time, mistakes, and strong muscles to really get the best from strapless dildos, but once you do, it may become your number one sex toy.
Where to buy a strapless dildo?
Strapless dildos are fun sex toys that can improve your play session and even take it to another level. Without the harness, you will have more skin contact with your partner, and the room temperature will boil with passion.
Strapless dildos make intercourse more real, natural, and intimate. This toy is the perfect choice because it encourages you to tighten and train certain parts of your body that have health benefits.
You should do your Kegel workout daily to improve your sexual health and prevent complications during aging, and not just to keep the toy inside you.
A realistic, safe, and high-quality strapless dildo with cute colors and special futures such as rabbit ears and clitoral stimulators are waiting for you in our store. Do you dare to choose one and surprise your partner?
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